Love Yourself

   This one thing majority of us are guilty of. We don't have self love. Let me begin today's blog with a short, funny but educative story I read on Facebook yesterday.

  ''There was an elderly lady sitting at the corner of a road probably begging for alms, and there was this room close-by. She noticed a smiling dog walk into the room and few minutes later the dog came out very happy. After some time a growling dog entered the same room and came out few minutes later with the worse kind of growling she has ever heard. Curiously she wondered within herself, what could be in that room that made one dog so happy and the other so angry. She got up from where she sat and went to the room, but to her surprise no one was in the room just a lot of mirrors hanging on the walls of the room. Then she smiled because now she knew what happened to the dogs. The happy dog saw a reflection of more happy dogs and left the room more happy, while the growling dog saw more bitter and angry dogs staring at him from the mirror and left the room more angry''

   So  it is in life What you are within attracts same to you. If you complain all the time and don't love yourself, how do you expect other people to love you? Everything that happens to us in life is a reflection of who we really are within. Here are a few guide to help you love yourself

1) You are not perfect and you never will , so stop trying to be perfect. Be yourself.

2) You were born alone so stop comparing yourself to others. Always be grateful for what you have.

3)Live in the reality of now. Don't be a wishful thinker. Love yourself the way you are now.

4)Take time to build yourself, remember that popular saying that there is no hurry in life. We will all get to our destination, don't be so much in a hurry.

5)Stop torturing yourself for past mistakes. Learn to forgive yourself and start again remember life is short.

6) Always speak positive things to yourself. Remember that our words are who we are.

7)Always do what you love not what others love.