Secrets to a happy and healthy relationship

   

  A relationship is the coming together of two people who are in love with the aim of achieving future goals and dreams together. These two people are from two different family backgrounds, coupled with various economic conditions they are bound to be some little disagreements and conflicts most of the time. So what does it take for a couple to stay happy and still in love both in good and bad times? Here is how:

1)      Realize that the relationship won’t be as easy as when you first started dating. Get over the initial romantic phase of new love and build a deeper, richer relationship which still has romance and can last for a long time.

2)      Always communicate with your partner. If you have any issue as to how your partner acts or perform a certain task, talk it out with them. All good relationships die as a result of lack of communication.

3)      Spend time together. We are living in a world where both couples work so it gets a bit difficult to create time with our partners. A couple who want to stay happy should try to create the time. There is no substitute for shared quality time.

4)      Find time to resolve all problems and misunderstanding immediately. Leaving an issue unresolved for days may make your partner wonder if you care for them at all.

5)      Work on your relationship. Your relationship won’t be a happy one if you don’t put much effort into making it work.

6)       Be willing to change. If your partner mentions something you do that bothers them, change your behavior gladly.

7)      Keep in touch always if you live in different cities. When you don’t call or pick their call they begin to wonder what you are up to.

8)      Surprise your partner with gifts and kind gestures.

9)      Give each other space and time alone with themselves. Spending time apart is also an important component of a happy relationship. It is healthy to have some separate interests and activities and to come back to the relationship refreshed and ready to share your experiences. Help each other to be efficient.

10)  Be honest at all times. There won’t be a happy relationship if the partners don’t trust themselves.

11)   Be spontaneous. Learn to surprise your partner with gifts, or favorite meal or even plan a surprise trip.